Ben Franklin Was Wrong!

Benjamin-franklin-dollar-billBen Frankin was, without question, a man of wisdom.  He was right about many things, but one area in which I must respectfully disagree with the sage is his insistence that the only certainties in this life are death and taxes.  Of course, taxes and death are hard to avoid, but there are also other things in life that we will most definitely not evade.  In this last of an 18 blog series on the subject matter contained in the book I co-authored with best-selling author, Jim Stovall, we address another one of those certainties and the steps that one must take to adapt and thrive in the face of it.

 From The Financial Crossroads, Chapter 18, “Your Story, Your Plan”:

We have made reference in other parts of the book to the oft quoted phrase about death and taxes.  I enjoy history, so I had to trace its origin.  It appears that Daniel Defoe, in 1726, was the first to make this now famous claim, albeit more eloquently: “Things as certain as death and taxes, can be more firmly believed.”  Much closer to the modern day phrase, however, was Ben Franklin’s redux in a letter to Jean-Baptiste Leroy in 1789, in which he said, “In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” Regardless of the veracity of this line of thought, I find it all quite depressing.  But I do think that we could turn this into a phrase in which we’d all agree: One guarantee in this world is change.

Do you embrace, reject, resist or retreat from change?  The fact that you purchased this book tells me you probably don’t reject it.  That you read this far tells me you probably don’t resist it.  The question now, however, is whether you will embrace it or retreat from it.  The easier path is to retreat, because as Arnold Bennett tells us, “even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.”  Regarding the intersection of money and life, there are two different types of change: fundamental change and practical change.  In a perfect world, fundamental change happens first and practical change follows almost effortlessly.  But fundamental change does not always come easily.  Often times, practical change precedes fundamental change as we allow a discipline to shape our view fundamentally.

A fundamental change is seeing the world as a risk manager; practical change is altering your insurance policies.  Fundamental change is shifting from a retirement plan to a fulfillment plan; practical change is taking degree or certificate college courses that could lead to a job change.  Fundamental change is seeing your estate plan as a legacy plan; practical change is updating your will.

Practical change is cutting up the credit cards, your path to more; fundamental change is genuine contentment with enough.  Practical change is beginning a giving program; fundamental change is having less of an attachment to material things.  Practical change is writing your Personal Money Story; fundamental change is realizing its significance.  Practical change is dealing with the dollars and cents in life; fundamental change is life itself.


Selling Snow Cones To Eskimos

The financial services business is… interesting.  It’s not entirely devoid of good intentions and well-meaning people, but there is no question whose interest is the top priority—and it ain’t yours!  To paint you a picture, I’ve included an excerpt from The Financial Crossroads; the story of how I first entered (then temporarily left) “the business.”

From Chapter Seventeen: Everyone Is Biased:

Snow-cone-210x300 “Everyone is biased.”  Those were the words of a mentor of mine shortly after I entered the business of financial advising.  I had already been working in the financial industry for several years, but this was the second time that my idealistic view of the objective, trusted financial advisor received a healthy dose of reality.  The first time was about three years earlier.  I had just finished celebrating my rite of passage into the stock brokerage world—successful completion of the “Series 7” examination that allows one to sell stocks, bonds, mutual funds, options, and various other securities to the public—when I left my entry-level back office job at a reputable brokerage firm to join a successful team of stock brokers at another firm as a “junior broker.”

I showed up the first day, bright and early, in my token blue pin-striped suit, starched white shirt, and bold power tie.  I sauntered into the team leader’s office to await my very first “Morning Call.”  I listened intently and began feverishly taking notes as a man’s voice rang through a small box detailing the economic events and non-events that were expected to influence the stock and bond markets that day, as well as the state of the current “inventory” that the company held.

As the call wrapped up with a dose of encouragement—akin to a team chant before a football game—I took a deep breath, a final swig of coffee, and moved forward onto the edge of my chair, eagerly awaiting the golden wisdom from my suspender-bound leader as I set out to save the populous from their deviant financial ways.  He stood up, glanced out over the magnificent view of the Baltimore harbor visible from his corner office, and invited me to walk across the hall to get comfortable in my new confines.

He grabbed a three-ring binder, six inches thick, and opened it to the first page.  Then he told me to write down the only note he had taken during the morning call:  “BGE 6.5% Preferred.”  My mission was to call the first number attached to the first name (of many) on the first page (of many) and begin a conversation to help bring whoever answered the phone to the conclusion that they could simply not go another day without putting some of their hard earned money to work for them in this bargain basement deal with an unbeatable yield on this new issue of the bedrock Baltimore utility company’s preferred stock.

I was told to start by putting a smile on my face, because my joy would better translate through the other end of the phone.  I should talk and talk and talk until the voice either transitioned into a static dial tone or submitted to my plea to “talk to the resident expert” in house (my team leader), at which point I should put them on hold and alert the big shark that we had a fish on the line (I’m not stretching the metaphors here; that’s really how they talked).

This was my dream??  Several weeks later, driving home from a client lunch with my leader, I got up the nerve to ask him a question, the answer to which I was dying to know:  “What drives you?  A genuine interest to guide a client to the path of financial success or a pure love of the sale?”

I appreciated his honesty as he let out a “hrmph” and retorted, “The sale—of course!  If this business dried up, I’d sell snow cones to Eskimos!”

He was the resident trainer for the company’s new breed of financial advisors that would guide (or pester) the residents of the Baltimore metropolitan area.  I talked to him a few days later and told him that I felt we had a “philosophical disconnect” in the way we viewed the business.  He agreed, saying, “Yeah, some people just aren’t cut out for the phone,” and we parted on good terms.

The celebrated entrance into the business I had dreamt about since the eighth grade ended in disappointment after only two months.

The Most Important Financial Planning Recommendation

Estate_planningWhen I say, “Financial Planning,” it’s altogether likely that the first thing that comes to your mind is either INVESTMENTS or INSURANCE.  And while each of those disciplines are fundamental and foundational to every good financial plan, it is easy for me to say that the most important recommendation that I see in most financial plans does not fall under either of those categories, but instead, in the realm of estate planning.

And, of course, the first thing that comes to mind when I mention stuff like wills, powers of attorney and advance directives is, “Oh, yeah, I know I need to do that.”  You’re in good company if you haven’t; over 80% of people don’t have these documents, and most of those who do, have insufficient or outdated documents.  Why is it, then, that I could suggest that the MOST IMPORTANT recommendations in your financial plan fall under the heading of estate planning?

First, if you have minor children and haven’t yet created wills (or you have children who’ve blessed you with grandchildren), you should stop whatever you’re doing and purpose yourself to contacting an estate planning attorney to get these documents drafted immediately.  Ordinarily, I try to avoid using such dramatic words as best, most and immediately, but I’m not exaggerating here!  The reason this is so important if you have minor children is because you stipulate in your will who the GUARDIAN would be for your children in the case that you and your spouse are both… gone.  Sure, the probability of that happening is very low, but if you don’t determine who should raise your children in your absence through a will, your state of residence will decide for you!

Second, whether you just became a legal adult or have recently gained access into the centenarian club, the time is likely to come when you’ll need someone else to help you with a financial or health decision because you’re unable (through a disability) or unavailable (you’re settling on a house and are out-of-town for business).  You can clear up exactly how these things would be handled with a well written power of attorney document and advance directives.  The former allows someone else to act on your behalf in financial matters; the latter, in decisions surrounding healthcare or end-of-life decisions (like the tragic Terri Schiavo case).

Third, of the very few things you can count on as certainty in this life is that your stay here on Earth will eventually come to an end.  So even if you’ve made definitive plans to join the prophet Elijah, who reportedly left the planet on a chariot of fire sometime around 800 B.C., you’ll likely be leaving someone (and something) behind when you go.  Deliberating over what you intend to leave behind—both monetarily and otherwise—may be seen as not only an opportunity, but an obligation for a life-well-lived.

So why do you think people have a tendency NOT to check-off this big to-do item of having solid estate planning documents created?  People have a tendency to avoid conversations about their own demise, as though they might attract it sooner.  Instead, I encourage you to see this as an incredible opportunity!  Whether your 20 or 120, I encourage you not just to leave an estate, but a legacy.

For more information on HOW to put together a proper estate plan, you’ll find a more detailed explanation in Chapter Sixteen of THE FINANCIAL CROSSROADS.

For more information on WHY, enjoy my CROSSROADS co-author, Jim Stovall’s, best-selling novel, THE ULTIMATE GIFT.

Life Lessons from a Dead Rich Guy

Have you heard about Jean Paul Getty?  He was named the richest living American by Fortune magazine in 1957, but unless you’re a history buff, his name only rings a bell because you’ve probably purchased gasoline from the company that bears his name, Getty Oil.260px-JP_Getty,1944 

Now, Mr. Getty was not right about everything.  For example, he had five different wives and was quoted once as saying, "A lasting relationship with a woman is only possible if you are a business failure." I’m not exactly sure how he kept getting dates with proclamations like that, but maybe it was because he had a way with words… or because he had a lot of money.  Regardless of Getty’s lack of relational skills, he became the richest man in America due to his keen business sense.  Consider this line that seems incredibly applicable to our current economic environment, “In times of rapid change, experience could be your worst enemy.”150px-As_I_See_It 

Is it possible that your comfort – or your advisor’s comfort – with the notion that the market is always going to take care of you led to the deep losses in your investments in recent years?  Maybe you thought that you survived the dot com bubble from 2000 through 2002, so what could be worse than that?  The answer: 2008.  History is still unfolding in this economic crisis at a pace more rapid than Getty could’ve dreamed.  How much more, then, should we heed his advice? 


The number 37.4 probably means very little to you.  But to those who live with Cystic Fibrosis and their friends and family, the number is very significant because the life expectancy of someone with CF is 37.4 years.  What impact would it have on your plans for the future if your life expectancy was rapidly approaching… or if you’d already passed it?  How, for example, would you plan for retirement and allocate today’s material resources?  In the course of writing The Financial Crossroads, I had the privilege of asking my good friend who lives with CF—and also happens to be a financial planner—these very questions.

From Chapter Fifteen: Retirement Fulfillment Planning:

A good friend and associate of mine has a unique posture towards retirement planning in the short, mid, and long term.  Marcus Harris is a Certified Financial Planner™ practitioner and a board member of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.  At the age of 35, he is a husband, father, financial planner and one who suffers from Cystic Fibrosis, a life-threatening genetic disease that at this time has no cure.  I asked Marcus how the knowledge of this disease has altered his view of retirement.

He told me that his personal financial planning philosophy took a serious turn about a decade ago.  Up to that point, Marcus assumed that his life would be dramatically shortened—“in 2008, the median predicted age of survival rose to 37.4 years, up from 32 in 2000,” according to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation website—and, therefore, he had little need for saving for the long and even the mid term.  He was a spender.  But in his mid-twenties, Marcus made a conscious decision that he wasn’t going to live life in the shadow of this disease; that he was going to continue to enjoy life, but he was going to approach it as though the cure was imminent.  And it may be.  This realization opened the door to Marcus entering into serious relationships, and in 2003, he got married.  Now, he and his wife have five-year-old twins, and Marcus is a saver.

I think that his is a situation that offers us all a profound lesson in financial planning.  Especially because of Marcus’s condition, he is very motivated to plan for his family’s future so that it is secure even if Marcus is unable to enjoy it with them.  At the same time, Marcus is reminded daily, with a host of medications that follow him, that he has a disease that could have already taken his life.  You might not know Marcus personally, but you know someone, or you may have experienced something similar personally that screams out that we are all living on borrowed time.

You Need To Know…It’s Wednesday (FRIDAY, actually)

Listen to Tim deliver this YNTK!  Click below:

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This audio essay was initially written and read two days ago—Wednesday—but it’s just as appropriate today!

YOU NEED TO KNOW… that it’s WEDNESDAY (FRIDAY, actually).

Yes, I know that this You Need To Know would appear self-evident, but after the Labor Day induced long weekend, you can’t deny that you’ve had the experience at least for a moment when you had to be reminded that, for all intents and purposes, you’re actually one day ahead of your week?  It’s happened to me a few times this week—most recently with a realization that woke me out of a groggy stupor in the shower this morning.  

When a realization like this hits us, it’s generally a good thing, because you’re basically ahead of the curve, especially if you look forward to your weekends.  What is not such a good feeling is waking up and being given a reminder that you’re behind the curve.  This happens to me occasionally when my four-year-old son plays a trick on me and messes with my alarm clock… the volume’s set too low and I slowly wake—feeling surprisingly refreshed for a mid-week morning—only to realize that I’m now running late. 

These momentary hiccups in our personal space time continuum are fleeting; they come and go and we get on with our life.  But through numerous—often self-preservative—acts of self-deception, events like these take place on a much bigger scale in our lives, and especially in our financial lives.  When we’ve planned properly in advance, a surprise hits and you may realize, “Wow, I’m better off than I expected!”  But often times, and especially in the midst of a tough recession, too many people seem to have one of those record-coming-to-a-screeching-halt-moments when it hits you that you’re underprepared, sometimes woefully so.  Maybe you realize that you simply followed the wrong career path and are now backed into a corner; or maybe you didn’t keep enough in emergency reserves so your job loss now means home foreclosure; or maybe you didn’t save enough and now your options for retirement are severely limited.  

These instances are not fleeting like the alarm clock or getting to the Wednesday [Friday] after Labor Day one day early—but they’re also not irrecoverable either.  And the first step is self-awareness or recognizing where you stand at the moment.  So whether you’re driving, sitting, standing or walking, consider this your wake-up call—your invitation to reality.  Ask some hard questions and know where you stand.  You’ll be glad you did… and that is something YOU NEED TO KNOW.

“This Isn’t Russia.”

Caddyshack-300x225In the midst of a mentoring session with Danny Noonan on the golf course, Ty Webb, Chevy Chase’s character in Caddyshack, instructs Danny, “You don’t have to go to college.  This isn’t Russia.  Is this Russia?  This isn’t Russia.”  Jim Stovall and I thought you may need a bit more instruction than this on the matter, so we dedicated a chapter to education planning and saving for education in The Financial Crossroads.  We’d like to share some of our contrarian thoughts with you for this week’s Crossroads Conversation…

From Chapter Fourteen: If Cost Were No Object:


Amy Skogstrom, Managing Editor at Automobile Magazine said, “When someone asks me what car I’d buy if cost were no object, I pretty much always say the 911.”  Ms. Skogstrom is referring to the Porsche 911, the iconic sports car to best all sports cars.  The magazine was reviewing Porsche’s newest creation, the 2009 911 Carrera 4S.  I can remember as a boy, too young to even drive, having one of those hypothetical daydreams as I thumbed through a magazine of sports cars, picturing a wealthy philanthropist walking up to me and saying, “Hey kid, I’ll buy you any car in that magazine——the cost is no object.”  In that recurring daydream, I too have always answered, “The 911.”  There’s just something about it.  But alas, when it comes to automobiles, cost is an issue, so I’ll not be parting with the $109,000 that would be required to buy the 2009 Carrera 4S, “as tested.”

There are very few things in life for which we could actually say money is no object.  The health and welfare of my family is the first that comes to my mind. But even then, I confess that I certainly have allowed money into my decision-making process.  I have, for instance, chosen a pediatrician who is in my health insurance network.  Is there a better pediatrician that may offer a concierge medical service independent of insurance hassles?  Possibly, but I haven’t explored those options because I know the cost is quite high.  For most decisions in life, money may not be the primary driving force in our decision, but we delude ourselves if we claim that it is a forgotten non-factor.

This is no more evident than in the realm of education.  Does education have a price?  As parents, do we owe our children a particular educational path?  Is a college education an entitlement or a privilege?  Before we jump headlong into this debate, let me clarify a few things.  Learning has inherent value that is incalculable.  Education is one of the primary ways that we learn.  I don’t, even for a second, want you to receive a message suggesting that education is overrated.  I teach on the college level and believe that it is one of the more important things that I do in life, but I don’t believe that any and all education is priceless.